Port scons build files for Windows users

We disable:
- the tests (which require glib) although they can be
  reactivated with the `--tests` command line flag
- shared library (lack of export symbol declarations
  means that although it can be built, no symbol is
  exported and therefore it can't be used)

The `install` target installs the library and headers
under the `build` folder, because it's a traditional practice
to move libraries to a central location on Windows, unless
you are using cygwin. In which case pass `prefix` to the
command line.

We adapt tools\windows\build_examples.bat to take the library
that is built using scons or using tools\windows\build.bat